we often wonder how male and female can fall in love...how they can accept each other when both are so different..the way males think is so different from the way females think..a snapshot of actions and thoughts by both parties would clearly draw the defining lines...males are more direct,overbearing,practical,insensitive while females are more emotional,irrational,sensitive and caring...so what exactly bring these two together?what is the drawing factor that sparks a sensation that cannot be defined by words until experienced?i believe that the root cause is a God given element called love....that intangible element that stirs the very heart of man...and the very substance that melts even the hardest heart...

if we ponder on love so often..if we see acts of love..little glimpses of love every now and then..we must be wondering how did this all came about...how people could just love one and one only..to keep to that commitment for life?how different people could find themselves as compatible mates of life?i believe it all started at creation and then affirmed at the cross..

right form the start..God had in mind the ways of man and how they were going to be like..in the past present and future..he knew that man would fall out with Him..and HE planned the greatest act of love..for the past present and the future..He gave love and showed love by the dying of His Son on the cross and it is imperative to note that love was an unknown attribute of God in the Old Testament...what happened was God's only Son died for not people of His kind..but rather..His creatures..not people that loved Him in return but rather, the people who mocked and scorned Him...i would say that that standard of love can never be reached by man..and if we are awed by long lasting love between couples..amazed by devotion of lovers..or even touched by the nobility of parental love...why people are not moved touched and compelled to recognise and believe God's love as the greatest love of all time?why not believe that He is the Son of God if such love can never be manifested by human beings?

the world is such:that the cacophony of the world, the rumblings and the songs of these world..the murmurs of god of these ages man choose to hear..while the euphony of God's love..the solo of His wondrous grace and mercy.. we often relegate to the bench..but we must always bear in mind that God's solo never change and He will always be singing it over us..and for eternity..